August 12 16 days & counting til coming home !!!!

Yesterday’s stem cell treatment went very well !!!!!  I didnt let him nap before it this time so he came back asleep & slept through 3 of his 4 hours of down time.  That is a first & it gave me a much needed break without staying in the bed & making sure he didnt get up.  He played for about 2 hrs when he got up at 8 then fell back asleep most of the night.  I couldnt have asked for a better day !!!

He hasnt been eating much like many of the other kids cant seem to get full after having stem cells, but he drinks tons so I think he is ok !

Today we are going to stay in again & just be lazy..I dont want to take him out int he heat & stress him right after a treatment.  We had another family go home this morning..Melissa & Wilma & her son Josh who is being treated for SOD..they aer so glad to be heading out of here & back to the US…they dread that they will have a long layover in the Korean airport, but should be fine !! cant wait to get home and be able to check in with all of these great families we have met here !!!

Oh oh oh…believe it or not ..yesterday before tylers treatment I went out in the play area to get him something to play with to kill time…right on the shelf was a laptop !!! now for all of you that know tyler you know that is the ONLY toy he truly loves…i could kick myself for not having my video camera out when i brought it inthe room & played the song…he sat very still & got a huge grin on his face !!! i put in next to him & he opened it & started pushing allt he buttons as if checking to make sure everything worked !!! and of course he has played with it every waking hour since then !!! it wil be going home with us & everyone here is on the lookout for them while out shopping !!!

Its lunch time or late breakfast since he has already had his PT today !!! he didnt scream as much today as usual which is a good sign !!!  Will probably write back more later in the day if we have anything of interest going on !!!

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About our group !!!

Mary Patton is in pink eating cake !! She is here with her mom & dad…Joe & Nikki…they are from New Orleans & she is being treated for Battens disease..

The young chinese girl on the sofa is Adel..she is actually 20 & a college student majoring in English & heard one of the parents here in the store speaking english & aksed if she could come over to get lessons !!! so she has been stopping in some to talk with everyone here & spend time with Joelynn & Kameron..Joelynn isnt i the pic but kameron is in the stroller…she is the cutest little girl with the biggest smile youve ever seen !!!  she is 4(if i remeber right) and she is being treated for a drowning accident when she was 22 months old & brought back to life after 25 minutes…they are from Canada ..the lady holding the baby who is named miles is here being treated for CP & they are from Oregon  he is here with his mom Kate & both grandmothers..his dad arrives tomorrow !!!…others not in the pic are Shel & Macie..macie is 15 from Colorado & has ONH like tyler…she is doing great too..& the best kid !!!  Corey who had the birthday is 3 today !! and he is being treated also for CP & he is here with his dad from Queensland Australia…another family we have gotten close with is Melissa & her mom & son Josh who is being treated for SOD also…he is 17 ..a senior in high school & incredibly smart…he is so mild mannered & we will miss them as they go home on tuesday…josh has had 6 treatments while here ..there have already been a few that left last week that were here also for SOD or ONH but i didnt get any pics of them…I know ..bad me…then we have several adults here being treated for various things we have come to know well….& finally Savannah !!! They are from Missouri & savannah is 8 with ONH, she is here with her grandmother whom she lives with fulltime & her aunt & father…she talks a mile a minute & has one heck of an imagination !!! she has barely light perception but goes anywhere she wants pretty much !!!  they have been a great comfort to us while here since we share so many of the same family situations with our kids…we will stay in touch for life also…they are so down to earth & we have had a blast with them !!!  we let savannah push tyler int he halls today in hsi stroller & it was hilarious !!! she did well but the stroller wheels gt turned sometimes even for me to push so he had a few head on collisions with the wall…but she was so excited she got to “babysit”..tyler really likes her too…i know that the day tyler starts talking he will be the male version of savannah…like i said in the earlier blog..these kids have touched all of our hearts in ways that we wont ever forget…on any given day that we sweat the small stuff…think of these kids & let it go….they have huge obstacles to overcome & they dont sweat it…they roll with the punches…we need to take note…well its approaching midnight here & im still up…will post more tomorrow on our updates with treatment when possible !!!  keep those prayers coming…to those of you that have gone home forgive me for not putting you guys in here…i hope to get pics from shel & others so that i can let all my family & friends back home meet all the wonderful people we have lived with for this past month…times we wont ever forget…

Tami & Tyler

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Some of our crew here !!!

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August 10

p1010269.JPGToday was another lazy day for us.  Tyler, however slept most of the night for the first night since arriving here with some help from everyone keeping him up til 11 pm & benadryl !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But when i got up today I felt more tired than usual from actually getting some sleep i think.  We layed around most of the day then Ravena & I got a cab & went to the RT Mart to wander around & kill some time.  I needed to get Tylers new favorite drink here which is called Peach Nectar !!  He loves it …it sounds like hummingbird food to me !!  We bought a few groceries and just looked at all the odd products they sale here, many are things we recognize..but with weird names.  Like after shower spray is called something like snake water ???????  i didnt purchase any just by chance…lol….I did get tyler more yogurt, which they consume mass quantities here…but its liquid ???? i have been mixing it in baby rice cereal to thicken it up & he loves it but this afternoon i just poured it in his sippy cup & he drank it up !!  I couldnt find coffee though other than instant, then found a specialty section with a few coffees but it was massively expensive.  So next trip to a mall i will buy some starbucks ground to bring back here.

I did find a certain toy that tyler has latched onto here at the hospital play area, it has a small keyboard & other buttons for various sounds.  One is a little girls head & when pushed plays a chinese childrens song !! He will be bringing that back to school with him to show it off !!!

Tomorrow Shel & Macie head back to Colorado, we will miss them greatly, as they have made our stay here so easy to this point..Shel’s stories & trips out have made our day most times !!!  and Macie is a pure angel…she deserves everything good in life & she will be in my prayers as will all of the children that are here…forever..we have all exchanged emails & I know that we will all be friends for life from what we are all going through with these children.  Joe & Nikki leave as well tomorrow headed back to New Orleans, their daughter Mary Patton is another angel..I cant not describe how much these kids touch your sole being around them & the struggles they are all going through and in the end they are just kids…as i write this with tears in my eyes to see them going through all of these just to have a glimpse at a normal life…so for everyone at home saying prayers for us …add them to your list !!!  I am going to send another post to list who is her with us now & have left…and you will know what amazing people are here !

Tomorrow is stem cell day for Tyler…he should get his treament about 1:30 pm…then be back in the room around 2:30 and then we have to lay flat & still for 4 hrs before we can get up..its hard ..but it has gotten easier…think I will turn in & rest up for tomorrow…

Tonight we also had Corey’s birthday party !! it was so nice with presents & cake..he seemed to have a great time…as did the adults….he turned 3 today !!!

Tami & Tyler

Coreys Birthday !!!

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p1010259.JPGp1010262.JPGTyler in his shades !  & a new friend at the mall

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August 9th

Today we had another free day to roam around.  Several of the families will be leaving the first of the week & wanted to go sight see a bit more.  We were invited to go back to Jesco (a mall) and then to a buddist temple. actually on I had taken pictures of from the last week.  It was extremely hot again today but about 10 of us set out for another day out to kill time !  There were of course tons of stairs at the temple but our driver once again pushed Tyler & carried his stroller up & down stairs & sometimes jsut watched hom for me to look around.  They had gorgeous jade at several gift shops for sale, I didnt buy anything but many of our group bought necklaces & other items.  We spent most of the day out again and were surprised to not see nearly the traffic we expected with the Olympics started.  Tonight  some of the people leaving this week are going to a club that is in walking distance of here by the Olympic park to hang out.  Many of the hospital staff plan to attend so Im sure they will have a blast & hope someone takes a lot of pictures !!!! We wont be going as Tyler isnt starting the club scene this early in liffe if grandma can help it !!!!  p1010252.JPG

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8-8-08

Today is a special day here with it being 8-8-08 !!!  We saw many weddings in the park today when we went for a walk.  The limo’s were decorated with roses & sprays of flowers !

The Olympics also start today, every channel on TV is caring it but not in English of course !  The park down from us also had fireworks until  late in the night, we didnt walk ther tonight though.  Tyler went to bed about 9pm but was up at 12ish most of the night !! so im tired again..he has felt fine & showing no ill effects from his alst treatment.  His next spinal will be on Monday then the last one the following Monday so we will have qutie a bit of free time until we leave to come home.  That makes it hard to pass the time when we are so ready to go !!!  One of the kids that is here with CP for treatment has a birthday on the 10th so we are planning a birthday party for him which everyone is so excited about !!!  a celebration & cake & ice cream…

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August 7

Today is a lazy day !!  Since we had a treatment yesterday we are laying low, and with the Olympics to start tomorrow we have been advised for safety issues they would rather us not be roaming around, more so in downtown areas !!!  A few braved it anyone with the driver today, we did go to an international buffet hoping to get a taste of american food……WRONG..ive not seen anything in that place in america !!!!!  Ox tail stir fry, duck tongue stir fry ???????  i ate lettuce a piece of bread & drank coffee…we were all disapointed !!  You’d think we would have learned by now there is NO food in this place we will eat !!! I will be sticking to my food from the american store until we leave.

Tyler slept last night from about midnight until 5 am so that wasnt to bad, he seems well today & has not pain or problems !!!  We can be sure to thank the twins from school for teaching him their scream before we came !!! Its cute but good lord !!!!  If i havent mentioned it yet everyone here honks their horns constantly, there are no real lanes ..no lights..no traffic signs or speed limit signs that weve seen !!! so now in a cab if they honk..tyler screams that high pitch scream then burst out laughing..i know one cab driver had to go home & change pants im quite sure !!!

I got his schedule today & he will get another treatment on the next 2 mondays then we are done !!!!  I can only hope the last 2 are as good as yesterday’s..

We have many more going home on Monday tuesday & wednesday this coming week…we are going to miss them so bad too !!!!

The things we wont miss here are : SMELLS..FOOD…being STARED at nearly being killed in cabs or vans…doing our own laundry in the sink, having NO HOT WATER for 5 days now…washing in cold water…and bad diet coke !!!

I talked with Dr Lisa today about tyler and she checked & said she hasnt seen much of a change YET..she said normally it is about 3- 6 months post treatment that we will see the biggest changes.  She said although it happens, it has been pretty rare that the babies see a huge change while at the hospital…some of the older kids are seeing a change but they already have some vision before treatment & they can tell you …like with Tyler if he is seeing some small light perception or anything he cant tell us nor would he even understand that he is seeing it.  Once back home we hav to really start working with him as if he is sighted so that he LEARNS he has vision..that is the most important part of all of this.  He can get vision here, but sight is a learned behavior !!!

I havent seen to much activity outside today as far as security again for the olympics..but im sure tomorrow we will.  We are in a suburb of Qingdao so it is 45 mintues to the actual event areas…it is about like driving from conyers to alpharetta…well he is napping again & im going to stretch out a bit too…we may go raom tomorrow if everyone is feeling up to it !! many here have had a flu bug that is going around..isnt that the pits…its already lousy here & then be sick on top of it…im praying i dont get it !!!

More updates later..hope everyone is getting to check out our pics as well !!

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First & last accupuncture for Tyler !!!

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August 6 stem cell day update

p1010158.JPGToday’s stem cell went MUCH better !!!  He was taken down about 2:30 & was back upstairs at 3:30 & was awake & not to cranky. They came in about 20 minutes later & gave her some valium & he was very calm, not out of it just calmer..he still wanted to get up though little stinker but he didnt scream & fight me like before.  There was a different person that did the spinals today also & the older 2 that had them said they didnt have any pain from them, so that could be helping Tyler as well.  He fell asleep at about 6:30 & is sleeping peacefully at the moment.  He is able to get up at 7:30 but probably will sleep a while then he can eat when he gets up, he did have juice though at 5:30 so with his fluids I think he is fine.  I think i will get him an icecream for a treat tonight once he wakes up !!!

One of the other girls is heading to the RT so she is going to pick up milk & bread that I am out of so I will not leave the room today !!  That is usually how stem cell day goes though !!!  Just wanted to let everyone know that this one went fine and I think  his last 2 will be a breeze !! lets hope so anyway …good morning to most of you & good night to us !!   thanks for your prayers they worked !

Tami & Tyler

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August 6 stem cell day

Today is our 3rd treament !!! & another spinal !!!  He is scheduled for 2:15ish and has his IV in & getting fluids now & asleep again.  Please pray that he handles this one better than last week, that was hard on both of us !!!  Not much to report so far here, on treatment days its very quite, the halls are full of doctors & nurses but most of the patients are tucked away in their rooms just waiting…& waiting & waiting !!!  Im going to go walk for a sec while i can ..after treatment Im int he bed with tyler to make him stay still until his 6 hrs are up !!! talk about a job !!! he is a hand full !!!  will report back later tonight after he is out of treament to let you guys know how its going !!! prayers for us to finish with great reuslts & come home soon !!!

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